Friday, April 30, 2010

Just nothing

So, I have two young sons. And the type of personality where I always have to be doing something. I have to have a goal. I need to accomplish things. Then I look for the next thing to do.

I keep busy.

That's why, today, I am proud of myself for doing nothing. For two whole hours.

The boys and I walked through the park.



We pointed out squirrels, birds and dogs pacing alongside their jogging humans.

"Want to go on an adventure?" the Man-cub asked me.

"I love adventures!" I told him. "We'll always have adventures."

And so I let the Junebug wander as he may, crawling and pulling up.



Eventually he wandered back to me.



Strangely, the Man-cub didn't feel the pull of the playground and stayed near me. We lay on a blanket and looked up at the trees.





We ate snacks and talked about nothing in particular. The boys wiggled, squirmed and hopped. The blanket got messy.



We inspected a mushroom. The Man-cub found a tiny seashell. We imagined a hidden universe under our feet.



The most amazing thing happened: nobody whined or cried or complained about anything! We were all perfectly at peace.

Time passes slowly when you have nothing to do. And I'm grateful for it.



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13 Comments:

Blogger Kristi said...

Great post. Do you offer seminars on how to do this? Because I could use a little chillin' the heck out!

April 30, 2010 4:38 PM  
Blogger Madeline said...

Oooo...I just love doing nothing and aimlessly wandering!! Glad you found joy in it!

April 30, 2010 5:53 PM  
Blogger Carrie and Troy Keiser said...

What a wonderful mom moment or couple of hours you spent together! Glad you slowed down and enjoyed the moment! Sometimes it's hard, but always it's worth it!

April 30, 2010 6:32 PM  
Blogger Shelle said...

that sounds so wonderful...interesting concept...that time slows down when you're doing nothing...i should try it sometime :) a very cute post.

April 30, 2010 8:06 PM  
Blogger Bloggy Mama said...

Wonderful!!

April 30, 2010 11:36 PM  
Blogger Amber said...

This post is what being a mama of young children is all about. I so love and treasure those simple explorations!

May 1, 2010 10:57 AM  
Blogger CaraBee said...

What a lovely outing! I'll bet you remember that "nothing" for a long time.

May 1, 2010 9:57 PM  
Blogger texasholly said...

A perfect day!

May 2, 2010 10:56 AM  
Blogger Freckle Face Girl said...

It is tough just to let things be, but makes an amazing day!

May 3, 2010 1:50 AM  
Blogger Cat said...

This seems so hard and yet so simple.

Beautiful post!

May 4, 2010 6:58 PM  
Blogger Momisodes said...

I can't believe how big your little man is getting! Sounds like it was a lovely afternoon.

May 7, 2010 2:12 PM  
Blogger Mrsbear said...

Aw, you gotta love those little boy tales. Sweet and to the point. My son's usually involve Spiderman of late. Sigh. Instead of quacks imagine web shooting sounds. lol.

May 10, 2010 9:56 AM  
Anonymous chelle said...

Nice! Love those sweet quiet moments so much. they are so rare!

May 10, 2010 9:48 PM  

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